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A father bought candied hawthorns for his two daughters but not for his little son.
The little boy, with tears in his eyes, looked sad and helpless as he clutched the corner of his clothes.
"You mom won't let me buy it for you."
"I didn't buy one for you."
"Your mom won't allow it."
"It's not that I won't buy it."
He even told his son to watch his two sisters eat.
"Buy him a black date one."
"Your mom said not to buy it."
"Just watch them eat."
The sisters deliberately teased, saying how fragrant and sweet the candied hawthorns were.
"So fragrant!"
The father kept repeating that his mom wouldn't let him buy it.
"Your mom won't let me buy it, I have no choice."
The mother quickly hugged the poor little boy to comfort him.
"Mom hug, Mom hug."
He seemed angry at his dad and wouldn't let him hold him.
"Come, Dad hug."
"One for each person in the family."
"I didn't buy one for my son."
He just watched his sisters with longing eyes, but when they offered him some, he didn't want it anymore.
"The two girls are eating so deliciously over there."
Although the father was scolded by netizens and later hurriedly went out to buy one for him, this memory of unfair treatment may stay with the child for a lifetime.
Never underestimate a child's memory. He might really remember it forever.
??「心伤之痛,过于体肤。」—— 韩非子
?? “The pain of a wounded heart runs deeper than any injury to the skin.” —— Han Feizi
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?? 2017年冬天,英国伯明翰的一家传统冰淇淋店前,一位母亲带着一对龙凤胎孩子排队。买到冰淇淋后,母亲将大份的巧克力味给了女儿,却以“男孩子不能娇气”为由,拒绝给同样伸着小手的儿子买任何东西。小男孩一路上死死拽着妈妈的衣角,眼睁睁看着姐姐大口吃着,委屈得低头掉眼泪,这一幕引发路人侧目。
?? In the winter of 2017, outside an ice cream shop in Birmingham, a mother lined up with her twins. She handed a large chocolate cone to the daughter but refused to buy anything for the son, claiming boys shouldn't be spoiled. The little boy clutched her coat the whole way home, crying silently as his sister ate.
?? 2024年春,四川成都的一家童装店内,一位奶奶带着孙女和外孙买衣服。奶奶给孙女挑选了三套华丽的裙子,面对外孙渴望的眼神,她却不停抱怨男孩子衣服太贵,一件也不给买。小男孩拉着自己破旧的衣袖,无助地站在镜子前看着打扮得像公主一样的姐姐,眼泪在眼眶里直打转,最后倔强地扭过头去。
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#爱 #拒绝偏心 #教育反思 #平等对待 #重视童年
#Love #RejectFavoritism #EducationalReflection #EqualTreatment #ValueChildhood